Monday, November 23, 2015

hugs and thanks

I only have a moment here, but needed to thank all of your for your heartfelt messages.

Tomorrow is TH's sister's Celebration of Life.

I fucked up the obit and forgot to put the day of the celebration..............

And now, his dad is dying, and is down to moment to moment.  The dad TH hates.

How true, that when it rains it pours.


  1. hmmmm, this is not so easy.

    if it were me in TH's position, I would say good riddance to my sperm donor and don't let the door hit ya in the ass. but that's just me.

  2. Loss is loss, and, sometimes, when someone leaves before you've had a chance at closure, it's even harder.
    Hopefully TH will realize he's had a wonderful life, with and without his father, and that's the best way to live.
    And die.

  3. I'm sorry to hear all of this is happening at once. I can understand what TH is going through. The only difference in my case is that my father and I have had a decent relationship during the past handful of years, and prior to that we didn't.

    Hang in there.