What really its quite surprising just how many places for rent here in town are "dry". No, they dont mean alcohol free, they mean without water.....yeah. I've done the whole last frontier lifestyle back in the day, and hellz no we are not going back to that again. Let me tell you using an outhouse in the middle of the winter is no fun whatsoever. Most people who live this way, bring their toilet seat in the house in between uses, or one can have a tendency to umm freeze down to the seat, yeah. Most laundromats here also offer shower rooms, due to the lack of water in so many of our cabins.
Here is a typical ad from Craigslist.
"For rent is a 20x30 Cabin with loft that is located on its on 2 acre lot, the cabin was wet till the well froze so its now a dry cabin. There is a composting toilet in the bathroom located in the cabin :). the rent is 500 a month. It has electric baseboard with a wood stove for heat. the wood stove will be removed this summer and a oil furnace will be installed. the stove is propane. All utilities are payed by tenant."
TH and I have finally done some long overdue talking. We seem to be on the same page on several important things, which is great. My gender is still a tripping up point however. He is honestly adrift as to how to act and whatnot. TH was teasing me about something silly last week, and after he said "silly woman" like he has done for a zillion years, he fell silent, and the mood chilled. So, it looks like we are going to have to have that talk again. I dont mind talking about this with him, but what bothers me is how often we seem to walk the same trail over and over, and nothing ever gets resolved to anyone's satisfaction. While I dont enjoy having to refer to myself in the feminine, its ok for others to do so. Yeah I know weird, but when I do so, it feels like a violation of my self. I've never felt comfortable using the feminine words, and for years had issue even typing the word 'girl'. When others use the feminine toward me, I'm ok with it, well....more or less, because its what they see, so for them it fits.
So, far I've packed 3 boxes of books, 1.5 of which were manga, and I've still have at least 3 more boxes to pack. Wow! I didnt realize just how many books TH and I actually read. Since I've gotten the Ipad, I'd say at least half of all my book purchases are digital, thank gods for that, or I'd have even more boxes to pack. Oh, and these books were all purchased in the past 2 years....We have close to 30 boxes of books in the storage unit.
TH came in the house a few days ago to find me standing in the kitchen, fridge door open, me looking in. Nothing within looked delightful, ya know? So, after some funny banter, we finally agreed upon barbeque. Now, I dont know about y'all, but for me when I'm chowing down on some good 'que its either sweet tea or a beer to quench the thirst. This was most def a beer night. After ordering up our dinners, I asked what sorts of dark beer they stock. The sweet waitress told me, I chose, and then she proceeded to card me. Tis one of those 100% card places, its s'all good, yeah?
TH was feeling playful and told her in a shocked voice, "You're carding her? shes 52!"
Waitress rolled her eyes at him and said, "No she's not!"
At this point I whipped out the license, and proved the point.
"So, how old did you think I was?"